When the Oscars' hosts started off the night joking about "toxic masculinity" in their opening monologue, few thought they'd see the phenomenon on display later that evening. But that seems to be what happened a few hours later when actor Will Smith slapped presenter Chris Rock, following Rock's joke about Smith's wife, Jada Pinkett Smith.

It was a moment like no other in Oscars history—more confusing and dramatic than even the 2017 La La Land/Moonlight mixup. As the room and at-home viewers buzzed trying to figure out what exactly happened, an understanding of events emerged. Rock made a joke last night about Pinkett Smith starring in G.I. Jane—seemingly a reference to her bald head—and Rock also made jokes at Pinkett Smith's expense during his 2016 hosting tour. (Pinkett Smith suffers from alopecia, a disorder she's discussed in the past.) All combined, Rock's antics seem to have led Smith to yell "Keep my wife's name out of your f***ing mouth!," storm the stage, and take out his anger on Rock with an open palm.

Smith made a tearful apology of sorts after winning the best actor award for his performance as Venus and Serena Williams' father in King Richard less than an hour later. "Richard Williams was a fierce defender of his family," he said, adding that he's been called to "protect people," mostly women, such as his costars in the film, Aunjanue Ellis, Saniyya Sidney, and Demi Singleton. "Love will make you do crazy things," he said.

We don't know exactly what prompted Smith to slap an Oscar presenter during the live broadcast (and Pinkett Smith has remained quiet about the joke and altercation that followed). But we do know that language about protecting women can be loaded—especially when tied to any kind of physical violence. Some, like presenter Tiffany Haddish, saw the moment as an example of a man "stand[ing] up for his wife."

For today, the moral of the story is that we're talking about this altercation rather than the work of women who were honored during the ceremony. Venus and Serena Williams, for their part, haven't had an easy awards season. First, a debate emerged about whether a film about their dad should have been made before one about them (the subject of another early-in-the-night joke). Then, just two weeks ago, The Power of the Dog director Jane Campion said in an acceptance speech that she had to "play against the guys," unlike the tennis stars, igniting another round of controversy.

Still, there were some other important moments. Beyoncé's neon-green, tennis-themed performance from the Williams sisters' hometown of Compton, California kicked off Oscars night—a more positive moment for the King Richard awards season. While The Power of the Dog came up short in several categories, Campion won for best director, making her the first woman to be nominated for best director twice and marking the first time two women have earned the directing prize in back-to-back years.

Director Sian Heder's film CODA, the story of a Deaf family and their hearing daughter, took home the top prize of best picture. One of the night's most heartwarming moments came when Troy Kotsur won best actor, making him the second Deaf actor to win an Oscar, after his CODA costar Marlee Matlin more than three decades ago. Minari actor Youn Yuh-jung presented Kotsur with the award, signing his name before announcing it to the room and offering to hold his statue so he could sign his speech with two hands.

Regina Hall, Amy Schumer, and Wanda Sykes had a successful night as the first group of women to host the Oscars and the Oscars' first hosts since 2018. Their material covered pay inequity, anti-abortion and anti-trans rights legislation. And following the Smith incident, Schumer deftly defused the tension.

Ariana DeBose took home the night's first award, winning best supporting actress for her role as Anita in West Side Story. She's only the second Latina to win an acting Oscar; the first was Rita Moreno, 60 years ago for the very same role. "You see a queer, openly queer woman of color, an Afro-Latina who found her strength in life through art," DeBose told the audience. "And that's what I believe we're here to celebrate."