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专家表示,坚持写感恩日记有助于缓解财务焦虑。

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随着天然气和食品杂货的价格不断上涨,美国似乎陷入了经济衰退,因此人们的财务压力升高也不足为奇。美国心理学会(American Psychological Association)开展的一年一度的美国压力(Stress in America)调查显示,在3,000多位成年人受访者中,接近90%的人表示日用品成本上涨是压力的主要来源。此外,81%的受访者认为供应链问题给他们带来了巨大压力。

美国心理学会的应用心理学高级主任丹尼斯·P·施托勒法律博士兼哲学博士解释称:“这与过去几年我们所看的情况截然不同。”他还指出,在之前的调查中并没有与通胀有关的问题,因为“以前的通货膨胀并不像现在一样严重。”

2022年2月,65%的受访者表示,经济是压力的主要来源,2021年6月该比例为58%。调查还发现,44岁或以下的成年人以及黑人和拉丁裔成年人,更有可能承受巨大压力。

施托勒说:“我们的数据并不能告诉我们具体原因,但你可以总结出一些理论。有些可能与稳定性问题有关,比如人们是否能够获得可以供其使用的代际财富。由于年龄差异,对老年人而言,压力可能源自观念问题,他们或许还记得20世纪70年代的输气管道。而对年轻人来说,压力源自他们一生中前所未见的上涨速度最快的通胀率,并且他们没有任何参照。”

施托勒表示,财务压力不只是一个经济问题,还会影响人们的精神健康。人们考虑金钱和支付基本需求是很正常的,但如果你对金钱的考虑多于你对生活中其他领域的思考,你就可能出现了财务焦虑。总是担心金钱问题会导致身体出现健康问题,例如失眠、失去胃口、胃痛等,这些都是与普通焦虑症有关的症状。

施托勒称:“真正可能导致沮丧、绝望甚至愤怒等情绪的是你无法控制的情况。我们个人无法控制通货膨胀。随着物价上涨,你买不起以前可能购买过的商品,它体现的并不是你个人层面的问题。而是反映了一种暂时的经济现实,而你对此无法掌控。”

但有一些方法能够让你找回一些掌控感。我们采访了一些专家,向他们咨询了如何缓解财务焦虑。

调节情绪

美国心理学会的候任会长泰马·布莱恩特博士鼓励人们尝试以情绪为中心的应对方式,这种压力管理方法专门用于调节恐慌、压力、焦虑等负面情绪。

她说:“比如与不会让你感到羞愧的好友谈论自己的财务状况,接受治疗,进行冥想,锻炼身体,写感恩日记,让自己专注于除了财务状况以外的其他事情等。

采取行动

在解决了情绪问题之后,应该用诚实的态度研究自己的预算。专家表示,虽然你可能倾向于逃避面对支出问题,但这实际上会加剧焦虑。

在专门从事精神健康和成瘾问题治疗的Burning Tree担任医学总监的德温·杜纳托夫博士建议:“清楚自己的财务状况,对于整体认识自己的处境非常重要。有时候,我们在内心描绘的状况比实际情况更加糟糕,这会加剧焦虑。即使你担心财务问题,定期查看银行账户、信用卡对账单、账单等依旧非常重要。掌握这些信息很重要。”

布莱恩特表示,其他解决问题的办法包括开辟新的收入来源、阅读提高财务素养的图书、咨询理财规划师、获取可以提高收入的技能,以及进行加薪谈判等。

善待自己

花钱让自己感觉更好,听起来或许有违直觉,但一些日常的奢侈享受,例如到街角咖啡店购买燕麦奶拿铁咖啡,或者上最喜欢的瑜伽课等,有助于减轻压力。

施托勒认为:“如果为了省钱而不去做一些让自己开心的和有助于心理健康的事情,你就会陷入恶性循环。如果去你最喜欢的公园需要花费10美元,你可能就会说:‘我不去了。’但你可能确实需要去那座公园,因为那是你当时最需要的。”

常怀感恩

研究发现,表达感恩有助于改善精神和身体健康。你可以通过冥想、向在你生命中出现过的人们写感谢信或者开始写感恩日记等方式,开始表达感恩之情。

施托勒称:“表达感恩非常简单,比如在一本小册子中记下每天要感恩的三件事情。人们表示在坚持这样做几个月后感觉非常良好。在当前的情况下,人们可能感觉资源匮乏,而写下自己感恩的事情很有帮助。”

保持乐观

虽然当前的经济状况不容乐观,但它终究会再次好转。

施托勒指出:“这是一个暂时性的问题,但它持续的时间越长,就越难保持乐观。而乐观的精神绝对是度过困境的关键。它对我们个人的心理健康至关重要,也是我们整个社会摆脱当前的经济困境、迈向更美好未来的关键。”

寻求帮助

如果你尝试了其他策略,却依旧对自己的财务状况感到焦虑,你或许就能够寻求医疗专业人员的帮助。

杜纳托夫说:“不要对寻求帮助感到尴尬,因为越快寻求帮助,越有助于改善自己的心理感受。需要再次强调的是,你要有计划,让自己可以对局面产生掌控感。”(财富中文网)

译者:刘进龙

审校:汪皓

随着天然气和食品杂货的价格不断上涨,美国似乎陷入了经济衰退,因此人们的财务压力升高也不足为奇。美国心理学会(American Psychological Association)开展的一年一度的美国压力(Stress in America)调查显示,在3,000多位成年人受访者中,接近90%的人表示日用品成本上涨是压力的主要来源。此外,81%的受访者认为供应链问题给他们带来了巨大压力。

美国心理学会的应用心理学高级主任丹尼斯·P·施托勒法律博士兼哲学博士解释称:“这与过去几年我们所看的情况截然不同。”他还指出,在之前的调查中并没有与通胀有关的问题,因为“以前的通货膨胀并不像现在一样严重。”

2022年2月,65%的受访者表示,经济是压力的主要来源,2021年6月该比例为58%。调查还发现,44岁或以下的成年人以及黑人和拉丁裔成年人,更有可能承受巨大压力。

施托勒说:“我们的数据并不能告诉我们具体原因,但你可以总结出一些理论。有些可能与稳定性问题有关,比如人们是否能够获得可以供其使用的代际财富。由于年龄差异,对老年人而言,压力可能源自观念问题,他们或许还记得20世纪70年代的输气管道。而对年轻人来说,压力源自他们一生中前所未见的上涨速度最快的通胀率,并且他们没有任何参照。”

施托勒表示,财务压力不只是一个经济问题,还会影响人们的精神健康。人们考虑金钱和支付基本需求是很正常的,但如果你对金钱的考虑多于你对生活中其他领域的思考,你就可能出现了财务焦虑。总是担心金钱问题会导致身体出现健康问题,例如失眠、失去胃口、胃痛等,这些都是与普通焦虑症有关的症状。

施托勒称:“真正可能导致沮丧、绝望甚至愤怒等情绪的是你无法控制的情况。我们个人无法控制通货膨胀。随着物价上涨,你买不起以前可能购买过的商品,它体现的并不是你个人层面的问题。而是反映了一种暂时的经济现实,而你对此无法掌控。”

但有一些方法能够让你找回一些掌控感。我们采访了一些专家,向他们咨询了如何缓解财务焦虑。

调节情绪

美国心理学会的候任会长泰马·布莱恩特博士鼓励人们尝试以情绪为中心的应对方式,这种压力管理方法专门用于调节恐慌、压力、焦虑等负面情绪。

她说:“比如与不会让你感到羞愧的好友谈论自己的财务状况,接受治疗,进行冥想,锻炼身体,写感恩日记,让自己专注于除了财务状况以外的其他事情等。

采取行动

在解决了情绪问题之后,应该用诚实的态度研究自己的预算。专家表示,虽然你可能倾向于逃避面对支出问题,但这实际上会加剧焦虑。

在专门从事精神健康和成瘾问题治疗的Burning Tree担任医学总监的德温·杜纳托夫博士建议:“清楚自己的财务状况,对于整体认识自己的处境非常重要。有时候,我们在内心描绘的状况比实际情况更加糟糕,这会加剧焦虑。即使你担心财务问题,定期查看银行账户、信用卡对账单、账单等依旧非常重要。掌握这些信息很重要。”

布莱恩特表示,其他解决问题的办法包括开辟新的收入来源、阅读提高财务素养的图书、咨询理财规划师、获取可以提高收入的技能,以及进行加薪谈判等。

善待自己

花钱让自己感觉更好,听起来或许有违直觉,但一些日常的奢侈享受,例如到街角咖啡店购买燕麦奶拿铁咖啡,或者上最喜欢的瑜伽课等,有助于减轻压力。

施托勒认为:“如果为了省钱而不去做一些让自己开心的和有助于心理健康的事情,你就会陷入恶性循环。如果去你最喜欢的公园需要花费10美元,你可能就会说:‘我不去了。’但你可能确实需要去那座公园,因为那是你当时最需要的。”

常怀感恩

研究发现,表达感恩有助于改善精神和身体健康。你可以通过冥想、向在你生命中出现过的人们写感谢信或者开始写感恩日记等方式,开始表达感恩之情。

施托勒称:“表达感恩非常简单,比如在一本小册子中记下每天要感恩的三件事情。人们表示在坚持这样做几个月后感觉非常良好。在当前的情况下,人们可能感觉资源匮乏,而写下自己感恩的事情很有帮助。”

保持乐观

虽然当前的经济状况不容乐观,但它终究会再次好转。

施托勒指出:“这是一个暂时性的问题,但它持续的时间越长,就越难保持乐观。而乐观的精神绝对是度过困境的关键。它对我们个人的心理健康至关重要,也是我们整个社会摆脱当前的经济困境、迈向更美好未来的关键。”

寻求帮助

如果你尝试了其他策略,却依旧对自己的财务状况感到焦虑,你或许就能够寻求医疗专业人员的帮助。

杜纳托夫说:“不要对寻求帮助感到尴尬,因为越快寻求帮助,越有助于改善自己的心理感受。需要再次强调的是,你要有计划,让自己可以对局面产生掌控感。”(财富中文网)

译者:刘进龙

审校:汪皓

With the cost of gas and groceries constantly rising and the country seemingly headed for a recession, it’s no wonder financial stress is also on the rise. According to the annual Stress in America survey of more than 3,000 adults, conducted by the American Psychological Association (APA), nearly 90% of respondents cited the increase in costs for everyday items as a significant source of stress. Additionally, 81% of people said supply-chain issues were causing them significant stress.

“This is different from what we have seen in past years,” explains Dennis P. Stolle, JD, Ph.D., APA’s senior director of applied psychology, adding that in previous surveys there were no inflation-specific questions because “it’s not always a big issue the way it is right now.”

In February 2022, 65% of people indicated the economy was a major source of stress compared with 58% in June 2021. The study also found that adults 44 years old and younger, as well as Black and Latinx adults, were more likely to report significant stress.

“Our data doesn’t tell us precisely the cause of that, but you can come up with theories. Some of it may have to do with stability issues, who does and does not have access to generational wealth that they could potentially fall back on,” says Stolle. “With the age difference, it could be a matter of perspective in terms of older adults who may remember the gas lines in the ’70s. Whereas for younger adults, this is the fastest inflation rate they’ve ever seen in their life, and they have no reference for it.”

Financial stress isn’t just an economic issue, it’s impacting people’s mental health as well, Stolle continues. While it’s normal to think about money and paying for basic needs, you could have financial anxiety if you tend to think about money more than other areas of your life. Constantly worrying about money could lead to physical symptoms, such as loss of sleep, loss of appetite, stomach pain—all symptoms commonly associated with general anxiety.

“One of the things that can really contribute to feelings of frustration, despair, and even anger are situations where you have no control. None of us individually are going to be able to control inflation,” says Stolle. “When prices go up and you can’t afford the product you might have bought before, that doesn’t reflect on you as a person. That is simply a reflection of an economic reality that is temporary and that you have no control over.”

But there are several ways to take back some sense of control. We talked to experts to learn more about how you can lessen financial anxiety.

Honor your emotions

Thema Bryant, Ph.D., president-elect of APA, encourages people to try emotion-focused coping, a type of stress management that focuses on regulating negative emotions, such as fear, stress, and anxiety.

“It may include talking to non-shaming friends about your financial situation, going to therapy, meditation, exercise, gratitude journaling, and giving yourself permission to focus on things besides your finances,” she says.

Take action

After you’ve addressed your emotions, it’s time to take an honest look at your budget. Although you may be tempted to avoid coming to terms with your spending, that can actually cause more anxiety, experts say.

“Knowing where you are financially is important to get a good picture of where you stand,” advises Dr. Devin Dunatov, medical director at Burning Tree, a treatment facility that specializes in mental health and addiction issues. “Sometimes, in our minds, we paint a picture worse than it is, which can increase anxiety. Even if you are worried about money, it is important to regularly check your bank accounts, credit card statements, bills, etc. Having this information is powerful.”

Other problem-solving strategies include creating another stream of income, reading financial literacy books, talking to a financial planner, acquiring skills that will increase your salary, and then negotiating a higher salary at work, says Bryant.

Treat yourself

While it may seem counterintuitive to spend money to feel better, treating yourself to everyday luxuries, such as that oat milk latte from the coffee shop around the corner or your favorite yoga class, could help offset some of the stress you’re feeling.

“You get into a vicious cycle where people are not doing the things that make them happy and psychologically healthy because they want to save money,” says Stolle. “If it costs $10 to get into your favorite park, then you may say, ‘I’m not going to go.’ But maybe this is exactly the time when you do need to go to your favorite park, because this is when you need it most.”

Count your blessings

Research has found that expressing gratitude can improve both your mental and physical health. Some ways to start a gratitude practice include meditating, writing thank-you notes to people in your life, or starting a gratitude journal.

“It is such a simple thing to do, to have a little booklet somewhere where every day you write down three things you’re grateful for. And people report how much better they feel after doing that for a few months,” says Stolle. “In a situation like this, where people may be feeling there’s a scarcity of resources, writing down what they’re grateful for could really help.”

Be optimistic

Although it may not seem so at the moment, the economy will eventually find itself right side up again.

“This is a fleeting problem, but the longer it goes on, the harder it is to remain optimistic,” says Stolle. “But that optimism is absolutely key for getting through it. It’s key for our individual psychological well-being, and collectively it’s key to us as a society moving out of this economic spot and moving into a better one.”

Seek help

If you’ve tried other tactics and you’re still feeling anxious about your financial situation, it may be time to seek help from a medical professional.

“You should never be embarrassed about asking for help because the sooner you do it, the better you will feel,” says Dunatov. “Again, it all goes back to having a plan, so you can start to feel in control of the situation.”

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