奥利弗与卡西·尼尔森的爱情故事开始于2012年美国佛罗里达州劳德代尔堡联邦高速公路旁的一家澳拜客牛排馆(Outback Steakhouse)。当时,卡西21岁,是餐厅的服务生,与父母住在一起,而奥利弗18岁,仍然在上高中。卡西不愿意随父母搬到阿拉巴马州,她很快邀请奥利弗与她同居,从此他们因为学习或工作开始了在佛罗里达州四处搬家的过程。
奥利弗在劳德代尔堡的布劳沃德学院(Broward College)继续就读了两年,但之后为了让奥利弗能够在中佛罗里达大学(University of Central Florida)完成学业,这对情侣搬到了奥兰多。奥利弗在该大学取得了环境工程学学士学位。在此期间,卡西在一家牙齿矫正和牙科诊所担任助理。他们在奥兰多租了一套公寓,住了约四年半时间,之后他们搬到了坦帕,奥利弗在那里找到了毕业后的第一份工作。
奥利弗说:“我们希望我大学一毕业就买房子。我们想买一套联排别墅,因为我们想有一个小院子用来养狗。但我们很快就意识到,特别是随着利率升高,我们不可能买得起联排别墅。”
这对情侣知道他们希望最终有一个属于自己的家。于是,奥利弗、卡西和他们的两条腊肠犬搬到了奥利弗父母家,他们最初的计划是只在那里住三个月。但在了解到首付金额后,这对情侣与公婆住在一起的时间延长到了八个月。他们两人的工资约为100,000美元。
在此期间,他们还在策划婚礼。2023年1月,他们搬去了奥利弗父母家,第二个月他们在拉斯维加斯举办了一次小型婚礼,包括一名猫王的模仿者,费用约为5,000美元。为了帮助攒下买房的首付,这对夫妇在他们的婚礼礼品清单中添加了“第一家园基金”,这是他们在清单里唯一的要求。
第一家园基金成为在千禧一代和Z世代夫妻中日益受欢迎的一种趋势。事实上,婚礼策划网站和商品交易平台The Knot的礼品与婚礼用品栏目的编辑凯瑟琳·海特表示,在2022年注册结婚的夫妻中,有16%设立了家园基金。
这些夫妻的婚礼礼品清单里写道:“我们很幸运多年来共同生活在一起。我们的内心世界非常充实,现在我们要为‘外在世界’做准备。您没有义务为我们的基金捐款,但如果您有心为我们赠送结婚礼物,这就是我们所梦想的礼物。如果您可以参加我们的婚礼,这将是我们能够想到的最好的礼物!”
海特称,家园基金最早出现在2019年。
海特指出:“但这种趋势在过去两年真正开始流行起来。这类礼品的热度没有表现出任何降温的迹象。虽然有些宾客可能更希望他们赠送的现金,可以用于举办一场庆祝宴会,例如蜜月晚宴,但在婚礼上赠送现金有特殊的意义,能够帮助新婚夫妇达到另外一个有意义的里程碑,那就是买房。”
海特还表示,The Knot不会从现金礼品中抽成,而且设立基金、关联银行账户和分享礼品清单均是免费的。在房屋可负担性日益紧张的当下,第一家园基金对夫妇们尤其宝贵。据The Knot统计,2022年美国结婚的平均成本为30,000美元。
卡西和奥利弗在RelatedISG Realty的房产中介唐娜·因科尔瓦亚对《财富》杂志表示:“我服务过的大多数首次购房人都面临可负担性和竞价等问题。他们并非买不起房,而是在当下的房地产市场中,他们可以买得起的房子,与三四年前年轻人能够买到房子有天壤之别。”
卡西和奥利弗凭借第一家园基金收到的资金和他们与奥利弗父母住在一起省下的钱,让他们可以实现买房的梦想。8月初,他们在劳德代尔堡的塔彭河社区买了一套一居室公寓,价格是292,000美元。
卡西表示:“老实说,这都得益于这个[第一家园基金]和他父母允许我们与他们同住。否则我们不可能买得起房。我们可能终生都要租房住。”
尽管他们已经攒够了首付,但要在他们能够承受的价格范围以内找到心仪的房子,依旧是一个挑战。卡西称,要找到一套状况足够好且无需大范围装修就可以入住的房子,同样是一个辛苦的过程。
奥利弗说:“每天晚上看到那些房子,我们会发现所有房子都超出了我们的价格上限。”事实上,一些社区要求他们支付房价的25%作为首付,这可能达到约75,000美元,但他们并没有做好支付如此高首付的准备。奥利弗表示,找一套适合自己的房子是一个单调乏味的过程,他还称有些社区甚至不接受宠物。
卡西说:“我们不想勉强接受。我们已经住在了他父母家,因此无论再过一两周还是再过一两个月才能够买到房子,我们都可以接受。”
卡西和奥利弗最后买了一套900平方英尺(约83.61平方米)的公寓,有一间卧室和一个半浴室,挂牌价为300,000美元,成交价是292,000美元,抵押贷款利率为7%。他们每个月还需要额外支付600美元的物业管理费,因此他们每个月的总住房成本为约2,300美元。
Zillow的资深经济学家妮科尔·巴绍告诉《财富》杂志,美国大多数房地产市场目前面临可负担性危机,而美国首次购房人所占的比例现在达到50%。
她说:“虽然房地产市场面临可负担性挑战,但首次购房人正在发挥创意以实现买房的梦想,有60%的首次购房人使用至少两种资金来源支付首付,通常是储蓄和亲朋好友的礼物。”
奥利弗和卡西对首次购房人有哪些建议?卡西表示:“不要放弃。”
“我们能够买房在很大程度上要得益于家人的帮助,因此我们很难给出建议。”奥利弗补充道:“如果没有家人的帮助,我们就永远也买不起房。”(财富中文网)
译者:刘进龙
审校:汪皓
奥利弗与卡西·尼尔森的爱情故事开始于2012年美国佛罗里达州劳德代尔堡联邦高速公路旁的一家澳拜客牛排馆(Outback Steakhouse)。当时,卡西21岁,是餐厅的服务生,与父母住在一起,而奥利弗18岁,仍然在上高中。卡西不愿意随父母搬到阿拉巴马州,她很快邀请奥利弗与她同居,从此他们因为学习或工作开始了在佛罗里达州四处搬家的过程。
奥利弗在劳德代尔堡的布劳沃德学院(Broward College)继续就读了两年,但之后为了让奥利弗能够在中佛罗里达大学(University of Central Florida)完成学业,这对情侣搬到了奥兰多。奥利弗在该大学取得了环境工程学学士学位。在此期间,卡西在一家牙齿矫正和牙科诊所担任助理。他们在奥兰多租了一套公寓,住了约四年半时间,之后他们搬到了坦帕,奥利弗在那里找到了毕业后的第一份工作。
奥利弗说:“我们希望我大学一毕业就买房子。我们想买一套联排别墅,因为我们想有一个小院子用来养狗。但我们很快就意识到,特别是随着利率升高,我们不可能买得起联排别墅。”
这对情侣知道他们希望最终有一个属于自己的家。于是,奥利弗、卡西和他们的两条腊肠犬搬到了奥利弗父母家,他们最初的计划是只在那里住三个月。但在了解到首付金额后,这对情侣与公婆住在一起的时间延长到了八个月。他们两人的工资约为100,000美元。
在此期间,他们还在策划婚礼。2023年1月,他们搬去了奥利弗父母家,第二个月他们在拉斯维加斯举办了一次小型婚礼,包括一名猫王的模仿者,费用约为5,000美元。为了帮助攒下买房的首付,这对夫妇在他们的婚礼礼品清单中添加了“第一家园基金”,这是他们在清单里唯一的要求。
第一家园基金成为在千禧一代和Z世代夫妻中日益受欢迎的一种趋势。事实上,婚礼策划网站和商品交易平台The Knot的礼品与婚礼用品栏目的编辑凯瑟琳·海特表示,在2022年注册结婚的夫妻中,有16%设立了家园基金。
这些夫妻的婚礼礼品清单里写道:“我们很幸运多年来共同生活在一起。我们的内心世界非常充实,现在我们要为‘外在世界’做准备。您没有义务为我们的基金捐款,但如果您有心为我们赠送结婚礼物,这就是我们所梦想的礼物。如果您可以参加我们的婚礼,这将是我们能够想到的最好的礼物!”
海特称,家园基金最早出现在2019年。
海特指出:“但这种趋势在过去两年真正开始流行起来。这类礼品的热度没有表现出任何降温的迹象。虽然有些宾客可能更希望他们赠送的现金,可以用于举办一场庆祝宴会,例如蜜月晚宴,但在婚礼上赠送现金有特殊的意义,能够帮助新婚夫妇达到另外一个有意义的里程碑,那就是买房。”
海特还表示,The Knot不会从现金礼品中抽成,而且设立基金、关联银行账户和分享礼品清单均是免费的。在房屋可负担性日益紧张的当下,第一家园基金对夫妇们尤其宝贵。据The Knot统计,2022年美国结婚的平均成本为30,000美元。
卡西和奥利弗在RelatedISG Realty的房产中介唐娜·因科尔瓦亚对《财富》杂志表示:“我服务过的大多数首次购房人都面临可负担性和竞价等问题。他们并非买不起房,而是在当下的房地产市场中,他们可以买得起的房子,与三四年前年轻人能够买到房子有天壤之别。”
卡西和奥利弗凭借第一家园基金收到的资金和他们与奥利弗父母住在一起省下的钱,让他们可以实现买房的梦想。8月初,他们在劳德代尔堡的塔彭河社区买了一套一居室公寓,价格是292,000美元。
卡西表示:“老实说,这都得益于这个[第一家园基金]和他父母允许我们与他们同住。否则我们不可能买得起房。我们可能终生都要租房住。”
尽管他们已经攒够了首付,但要在他们能够承受的价格范围以内找到心仪的房子,依旧是一个挑战。卡西称,要找到一套状况足够好且无需大范围装修就可以入住的房子,同样是一个辛苦的过程。
奥利弗说:“每天晚上看到那些房子,我们会发现所有房子都超出了我们的价格上限。”事实上,一些社区要求他们支付房价的25%作为首付,这可能达到约75,000美元,但他们并没有做好支付如此高首付的准备。奥利弗表示,找一套适合自己的房子是一个单调乏味的过程,他还称有些社区甚至不接受宠物。
卡西说:“我们不想勉强接受。我们已经住在了他父母家,因此无论再过一两周还是再过一两个月才能够买到房子,我们都可以接受。”
卡西和奥利弗最后买了一套900平方英尺(约83.61平方米)的公寓,有一间卧室和一个半浴室,挂牌价为300,000美元,成交价是292,000美元,抵押贷款利率为7%。他们每个月还需要额外支付600美元的物业管理费,因此他们每个月的总住房成本为约2,300美元。
Zillow的资深经济学家妮科尔·巴绍告诉《财富》杂志,美国大多数房地产市场目前面临可负担性危机,而美国首次购房人所占的比例现在达到50%。
她说:“虽然房地产市场面临可负担性挑战,但首次购房人正在发挥创意以实现买房的梦想,有60%的首次购房人使用至少两种资金来源支付首付,通常是储蓄和亲朋好友的礼物。”
奥利弗和卡西对首次购房人有哪些建议?卡西表示:“不要放弃。”
“我们能够买房在很大程度上要得益于家人的帮助,因此我们很难给出建议。”奥利弗补充道:“如果没有家人的帮助,我们就永远也买不起房。”(财富中文网)
译者:刘进龙
审校:汪皓
Oliver and Cassie Nilsson’s love story started in 2012 at an Outback Steakhouse on Federal Highway in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. Cassie was a 21-year-old server who lived with her parents, and Oliver was 18 years old and still in high school. Resistant to moving with her parents to Alabama, Cassie soon asked Oliver to move in with her, and so started their journey of moving back and forth across the state—whether for school or work.
Oliver went on to complete a couple years at Broward College in Fort Lauderdale, but then the couple moved to Orlando so he could finish out school at the University of Central Florida where he graduated with a bachelor’s degree in environmental engineering. Meanwhile, Cassie worked at an orthodontics and dental office as an assistant. They lived and rented an apartment in Orlando for about four-and-a-half years before moving to Tampa, where Oliver had landed his first post-grad job.
“Our expectation was as soon as I graduated college we would buy a house,” Oliver says. “We wanted to get a townhouse because we want a little yard for dogs. But we quickly realized that was not on the table for us, especially with the interest rate being so high.”
Knowing that they wanted to eventually own a home, Oliver, Cassie and their two dachshunds moved in with Oliver’s parents—a stint originally planned to last just three months. But when the couple, who make a combined salary of about $100,000, realized the amount of money it would require to make a down payment on a home, that snowballed into eight months under the same roof as their in-laws.
During this time, the couple was also planning their wedding. They had moved in with Oliver’s parents in January 2023, and the following month had a Las Vegas elopement, which included an Elvis impersonator and cost about $5,000. To help save for down payment on their home, the couple added a “first home fund”—their one and only request on their wedding registry.
First home funds are a trend growing in popularity for millennial and Gen Z couples. In fact, 16% of couples who registered in 2022 established a home fund, says Cathryn Haight, editor of gifting and stationery at The Knot, a wedding planning site and vendor marketplace.
“We have been lucky enough to live together for many years,” their wedding registry reads. “In that time we have all we need for the inside, now we are saving the ‘outside.’ There is no obligation to contribute, but if you were thinking of getting us anything this is our dream. If you are coming to our wedding, that is the greatest gift we could ask of you!”
Home funds have been around as early as 2019, Haight says.
“But they’ve really picked up steam in the last two years,” Haight says. “The category shows no signs of slowing down. While some guests may prefer their cash gifts to go toward a celebratory treat like a honeymoon dinner, there’s something so special about a wedding contribution helping new spouses reach another meaningful milestone: homeownership.”
The Knot does not take a percentage of cash registry gifts and it is free to start a fund, link a bank account, and share your registry, Haight adds. First home funds can be especially valuable for couples now that housing affordability is increasingly strained. For reference, the average cost of a wedding in the U.S. in 2022 was $30,000, according to The Knot.
“Most of the first-time homebuyers I am working with are faced with challenges of affordability and competition,” Donna Incorvaja, Cassie and Oliver’s real estate agent at RelatedISG Realty, tells Fortune. “It’s not that they can’t afford to buy, but that what they can afford in today’s market is very different from what a younger generation could buy three-to-four years ago.”
The money contributed to the first home fund, along with the money they saved during the time spent living with Oliver’s parents, made possible their dream to buy a home. In early August, they closed on a $292,000 one-bedroom condo in the Tarpon River neighborhood in Fort Lauderdale.
“Honest to God, it was this [the first home fund] and his parents letting us stay there,” Cassie says. “We would have never been able [to buy]. We would have rented our whole life.”
Even with a down payment saved up, it was still challenging to find what they were looking for within an affordable range. Finding a home that was in good enough shape to move into without extensive renovations was tough, too, Cassie adds.
“Every night when we would look [at homes], we would notice that everything is basically out of our price limit,” Oliver says. Indeed, some communities required that the couple put 25% down of the purchase price, which could amount to about $75,000—an amount that they were not prepared to pay. It was a tedious process finding a home that would work for them, Oliver says, adding that some communities wouldn’t accept pets.
“We didn’t want to settle,” Cassie says. “We already had been living in his parents house, so it was either going to be a couple more weeks or a couple more months.”
Cassie and Oliver ended up purchasing the 900-square-foot, one-bedroom, one-and-a-half bath condo, which was listed at $300,000 for $292,000 at a 7% mortgage rate. They also pay about $600 extra in HOA fees each month, which brings their total housing cost per month to about $2,300.
While most housing markets are in the midst of an affordability crunch first-time home buyers now represent 50% of all home buyers in the U.S., Nicole Bachaud, a senior economist with Zillow, tells Fortune.
“Even though affordability in this housing market is challenging, first time buyers are getting creative to make it work with 60% of first-time buyers using at least two sources to finance their down payment—typically savings and gifts from family or friends,” she says.
Oliver and Cassie’s advice for first-time home buyers? “Don’t give up.”
“It’s hard to give advice when you know, a lot of this is possible due to our family,” Cassie says. “We’d never be able to buy this place with the help of our family,” Oliver adds.