硅谷资深人士马克·安德森对那些想在职场展示“完整自我”的员工提出了相当直接的建议:不要这样做。
在职场中展示“完整自我”或“全然自我”的理念指出,员工应该能够在职业环境中坦诚地表达自己,展现自己脆弱的一面,提出不同意见,而不必担心可能带来的后果。
从各类书籍到TED演讲都对这一理念进行了探讨,尤其是在疫情期间,当员工努力平衡居家办公期间的个人与职业生活时,这一话题变得尤为突出。
但亿万富翁投资者马克·安德森认为,是时候在工作与家庭之间重新建立更加传统的界限了。
一位用户在社交平台X上写道:“我听过的最糟糕建议之一就是无论在什么情况下,‘都要展示完整的自我’。”
据《福布斯》报道,安德森的身价接近20亿美元。他转发了这条评论,并补充道:“你绝对不应该展示完整的自我。”
他继续写道:“把你的完整自我留在家里,因为那才是它应该待的地方。在工作和公共场合,请表现得像个专业人士和成年人。”
职场行为整顿
多家公司对他们认为行事不专业的员工采取了严格的整顿措施。
例如,据传闻,在Meta公司,有员工在日常生活中模糊了工作福利与个人便利之间的界限。
据报道,上个月,这家由马克·扎克伯格创立的公司解雇了几名员工,因为他们滥用公司25美元的餐补,把餐补花在非食品项目上,或点餐送至个人住所。
几周后,安永(EY)据称解雇了多名美国员工,因为这些员工被发现同时参加了两场培训课程。
作为“四大会计师事务所”之一的安永要求员工参加内部培训课程,以获得规定数量的职业学分。
这些员工声称,他们之所以同时参加两场课程,是为了避免错过课程,而不是为了更快获得学分。
在职场中应该展现多少真实自我
特别是在当前政治和地缘政治局势高度紧张的时期,将个人观点等真实自我带入职场,可能成为管理上的雷区。
虽然在职场中建立社会关系有助于提高生产力并增加员工的工作乐趣,但交换政治观点往往会适得其反。
例如,猫头鹰实验室(Owl Labs)今年早些时候发布的一项研究显示,45%的美国员工会因为同事或雇主表达的政治观点而选择避开办公室。
因此,专家鼓励员工在建立人际关系与过度分享之间找到平衡点。
2021年,在疫情最严重时期,传播学专家苏珊·麦克弗森在《哈佛商业评论》中写道:“展现‘真实的自我’,是在职场中建立有意义人际关系的基础,但这也需要时间和意向。而最有力的工具就是倾听。”
她进一步指出,“在职场中展示真实的自我,意味着展现脆弱的一面,但并不是每个人都值得或需要看到你的这一面。”(财富中文网)
译者:刘进龙
审校:汪皓
硅谷资深人士马克·安德森对那些想在职场展示“完整自我”的员工提出了相当直接的建议:不要这样做。
在职场中展示“完整自我”或“全然自我”的理念指出,员工应该能够在职业环境中坦诚地表达自己,展现自己脆弱的一面,提出不同意见,而不必担心可能带来的后果。
从各类书籍到TED演讲都对这一理念进行了探讨,尤其是在疫情期间,当员工努力平衡居家办公期间的个人与职业生活时,这一话题变得尤为突出。
但亿万富翁投资者马克·安德森认为,是时候在工作与家庭之间重新建立更加传统的界限了。
一位用户在社交平台X上写道:“我听过的最糟糕建议之一就是无论在什么情况下,‘都要展示完整的自我’。”
据《福布斯》报道,安德森的身价接近20亿美元。他转发了这条评论,并补充道:“你绝对不应该展示完整的自我。”
他继续写道:“把你的完整自我留在家里,因为那才是它应该待的地方。在工作和公共场合,请表现得像个专业人士和成年人。”
职场行为整顿
多家公司对他们认为行事不专业的员工采取了严格的整顿措施。
例如,据传闻,在Meta公司,有员工在日常生活中模糊了工作福利与个人便利之间的界限。
据报道,上个月,这家由马克·扎克伯格创立的公司解雇了几名员工,因为他们滥用公司25美元的餐补,把餐补花在非食品项目上,或点餐送至个人住所。
几周后,安永(EY)据称解雇了多名美国员工,因为这些员工被发现同时参加了两场培训课程。
作为“四大会计师事务所”之一的安永要求员工参加内部培训课程,以获得规定数量的职业学分。
这些员工声称,他们之所以同时参加两场课程,是为了避免错过课程,而不是为了更快获得学分。
在职场中应该展现多少真实自我
特别是在当前政治和地缘政治局势高度紧张的时期,将个人观点等真实自我带入职场,可能成为管理上的雷区。
虽然在职场中建立社会关系有助于提高生产力并增加员工的工作乐趣,但交换政治观点往往会适得其反。
例如,猫头鹰实验室(Owl Labs)今年早些时候发布的一项研究显示,45%的美国员工会因为同事或雇主表达的政治观点而选择避开办公室。
因此,专家鼓励员工在建立人际关系与过度分享之间找到平衡点。
2021年,在疫情最严重时期,传播学专家苏珊·麦克弗森在《哈佛商业评论》中写道:“展现‘真实的自我’,是在职场中建立有意义人际关系的基础,但这也需要时间和意向。而最有力的工具就是倾听。”
她进一步指出,“在职场中展示真实的自我,意味着展现脆弱的一面,但并不是每个人都值得或需要看到你的这一面。”(财富中文网)
译者:刘进龙
审校:汪皓
Silicon Valley veteran Marc Andreessen has some pretty brutal advice for staffers who want to bring their “full self” to work: Don’t.
The notion of bringing one’s “full” or “whole” self to the office states that employees should be able to be honest and vulnerable in a professional setting, offer a difference of opinion, and not be nervous about the ramifications.
Everything from books to TED talks have focused on the idea, which became particularly prominent during the pandemic when staff grappled to balance their personal and professional life while working from home.
But for billionaire investor Andreessen, it’s time to reintroduce more traditional boundaries between the office and home.
On X a user wrote: “One of the worst pieces of advice I’ve ever received was to ‘always bring your full self,’ no matter the context.”
Andreessen—reportedly worth almost $2 billion per Forbes—reposted the comment, adding, “The one thing you should never, ever, ever do is bring your full self.
“Leave your full self at home where it belongs and act like a professional and a grownup at work and in public.”
Crackdown on workplace behavior
It comes as a number of workplaces have come down hard on staffers they feel aren’t acting professionally.
At Meta, for example, staffers were reportedly blurring the lines between work perks and convenience in their day-to-day lives.
Last month, the Mark Zuckerberg–founded company reportedly fired a handful of staffers who had been abusing the company’s $25 meal stipend, spending the money on nonfood items or having meals delivered to their homes.
Weeks later, EY reportedly dismissed a number of U.S. staffers after they were discovered to have attended two training sessions at the same time.
The employees at the Big Four firm were taking part in internal learning courses, which must be undertaken to gain a mandatory number of professional credits.
The staffers reportedly claimed they were attending double sessions so they didn’t miss out on sessions, as opposed to attending two to gain the points more quickly.
How much to bring to work
Bringing your authentic self—opinions and all—to the office can present a managerial minefield, particularly at a time of high political and geopolitical tensions.
While forming social relationships in the workplace can help productivity and increase employees’ enjoyment of it, trading political opinions can counter those effects.
For example, a study by Owl Labs released earlier this year found that 45% of U.S. employees would avoid the office because of political opinions expressed by their colleagues or their employer.
Experts, therefore, encourage staff to strike a balance between human connection and overly sharing.
In 2021, during the height of the pandemic, communications expert Susan McPherson wrote in the Harvard Business Review: “Showing up as your ‘authentic’ self is the baseline to building meaningful relationships at work, but it also requires time and intent. The best tool you have here is listening.”
McPherson added, “Bringing your true self to work means being vulnerable, and not everyone deserves or needs to see that side of you.”