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幸福生活的四个好习惯

Kristine Gill
2024-12-25

拥有朋友、家人和其他牢固的社会纽带对幸福至关重要。

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2024年《世界幸福报告》(World Happiness Report.)显示,芬兰是世界上最幸福的国家。不过,专家们认为,无论你身在何处,都能找到方法提升幸福感,并不需要飘洋过海、远赴异国。

“幸福是一种习惯,” Happy Things创始人、首席执行官塔利娅·苏恩说。为帮助人们在日常活动中养成好习惯,提升幸福感,她创办了Happy Things平台。

苏恩坦言,对她而言,幸福感并非轻易可得。而她哥哥的幸福基线(baseline of happiness)比她还要高。当注意到这种差异时,她决定根据幸福背后的科学原理开发一款应用程序,改善自己的生活。

“很多人认为幸福是不切实际的,遥不可及、难以把握,”她说,“我们的目标是找到切实可行、易于掌握的方法让自己更幸福。”

许多专家认为,人们可以通过一些具体方法来获得幸福,且不受生活环境的影响。让我们看看专家们所说的幸福人士通常是怎么做的。

1. 培养积极的心态

心理学教授索尼娅·柳博米尔斯基将幸福定义为“对快乐、满足或积极幸福的体验,以及体验到生活是美好的,有意义的且有价值的”。 苏恩对此表示认同。

苏恩认为,在生活中寻找小确幸也有其意义。

“这确实是真的,关键在于我们要主动将这些小确幸融入到日常生活中,而不是坐等它们出现,” 她说。

积极培养幸福感的一个方法是开始写感恩日记。专家称,生活中的点点滴滴都能成为快乐的源泉,而冥想练习则能帮助人们认识到并沉浸其中。

此外,保持积极的心态也被证实能够提升幸福感。

苏恩说:“我们倾向于关注负面情绪,这是一种进化机制,因为它能保证我们的安全,但这也会增加我们的压力水平,从而产生负面影响。”

冥想是一种学习如何转变心态的方法,但苏恩在这方面并没有太多成功经验。不过,她发现自己在跑步或练习瑜伽时能达到冥想状态。

“所以,冥想并不一定要在昏暗的烛光下进行,”她说。

2. 减压

压力大小可能是决定你幸福水平的关键因素之一。苏恩指出,亲近自然有助于减轻压力。然而,对于那些一年到头忙碌不已、鲜有机会亲近自然的人来说,通过聆听大自然的声音,同样可以享受到户外时光的益处。。

压力大小与闲暇时间息息相关。劳里·桑托斯是耶鲁大学(Yale University)心理学教授,同时也是《幸福实验室》(The Happiness Lab )播客节目主持人,致力于研究幸福背后的科学原理。她提到一个概念:“时间富裕”(time affluence),即拥有闲暇时间的人感觉更幸福。

与之相对的概念是“时间饥荒”(time famine),她解释说:“处在时间饥荒状态的人,就如同在忍受饥饿,而研究表明,这种感觉对幸福感的负面影响与失业相当。”

美国心理学会(American Psychological Association)2021年的一项研究指出,虽然过多的闲暇时间可能引发问题,但每天少于两小时的闲暇时间同样会降低幸福感。该研究得出结论,每天2到5小时的闲暇时间是获得最佳幸福感的理想时长。

另一个常见的压力来源是金钱。桑托斯说:“如果你经济困难,整日为吃穿住用行而奔波,那么增加收入确实会让你更幸福。”

然而,2010年的一项经常被引用的研究发现,年收入达到75,000美元后,收入的增加对幸福感的提升作用就变得很有限。

“最近的一些研究有一些细微差别,但我认为数据真正告诉我们的是,金钱对我们幸福感的影响远比我们想象的要小,” 桑托斯说。

3. 运动

专家们称,多巴胺和内啡肽能够让人感到幸福,而获得它们并不需要进行马拉松训练。

“在有关幸福感与运动的研究中,最令人信服的一项研究将每天半小时有氧运动与服用抗抑郁药物的效果进行了对比,” 桑托斯说,“这些研究基本上都表明,增加身体活动确实能够影响我们的幸福水平。”

尽管我们尚不完全清楚这背后的科学机制,但一些研究者推测,运动可以改善大脑功能,有助于治疗某些精神疾病,从而带来更多的幸福感。众多研究显示,即使是短时间的运动也能产生这种积极效果。

正如苏恩之前所强调的,户外运动好处多多。

“聆听大自然的声音、呼吸新鲜空气有助于提升幸福感,” 她说。

4. 社交

美国正在经历一场“孤独流行病”,其对健康的危害等同于吸烟。在3月份发布的一份公告中,美国卫生局局长警告称,那些感到孤独的人可能会面临严重的健康风险。

相反,拥有朋友、家人以及通过工作或志愿者服务建立牢固社会纽带对于幸福至关重要。

《世界幸福报告》将这种社会支持定义为在需要时可以依靠或求助的人。

“所有关于幸福人群的研究都显示,幸福的人更擅长社交,” 桑托斯说,“他们花更多时间与朋友和家人相处,也更频繁地与他人互动。因此,我认为拥有更多的社交联系与感到更幸福之间存在着明显的联系。而缺乏社交联系也是‘孤独流行病’日益严重的原因之一。”

苏恩的应用程序通过建议用户与同事共进午餐或给老朋友发信息来培养幸福感。

“社交联系的质量比数量更为重要,” 苏恩说,“在你的生活中,哪怕只有两三个你觉得会陪伴你、当你求助时会为你提供支持的人,都是极其重要的。”(财富中文网)

译者:梁宇

审校:夏林

2024年《世界幸福报告》(World Happiness Report.)显示,芬兰是世界上最幸福的国家。不过,专家们认为,无论你身在何处,都能找到方法提升幸福感,并不需要飘洋过海、远赴异国。

“幸福是一种习惯,” Happy Things创始人、首席执行官塔利娅·苏恩说。为帮助人们在日常活动中养成好习惯,提升幸福感,她创办了Happy Things平台。

苏恩坦言,对她而言,幸福感并非轻易可得。而她哥哥的幸福基线(baseline of happiness)比她还要高。当注意到这种差异时,她决定根据幸福背后的科学原理开发一款应用程序,改善自己的生活。

“很多人认为幸福是不切实际的,遥不可及、难以把握,”她说,“我们的目标是找到切实可行、易于掌握的方法让自己更幸福。”

许多专家认为,人们可以通过一些具体方法来获得幸福,且不受生活环境的影响。让我们看看专家们所说的幸福人士通常是怎么做的。

1. 培养积极的心态

心理学教授索尼娅·柳博米尔斯基将幸福定义为“对快乐、满足或积极幸福的体验,以及体验到生活是美好的,有意义的且有价值的”。 苏恩对此表示认同。

苏恩认为,在生活中寻找小确幸也有其意义。

“这确实是真的,关键在于我们要主动将这些小确幸融入到日常生活中,而不是坐等它们出现,” 她说。

积极培养幸福感的一个方法是开始写感恩日记。专家称,生活中的点点滴滴都能成为快乐的源泉,而冥想练习则能帮助人们认识到并沉浸其中。

此外,保持积极的心态也被证实能够提升幸福感。

苏恩说:“我们倾向于关注负面情绪,这是一种进化机制,因为它能保证我们的安全,但这也会增加我们的压力水平,从而产生负面影响。”

冥想是一种学习如何转变心态的方法,但苏恩在这方面并没有太多成功经验。不过,她发现自己在跑步或练习瑜伽时能达到冥想状态。

“所以,冥想并不一定要在昏暗的烛光下进行,”她说。

2. 减压

压力大小可能是决定你幸福水平的关键因素之一。苏恩指出,亲近自然有助于减轻压力。然而,对于那些一年到头忙碌不已、鲜有机会亲近自然的人来说,通过聆听大自然的声音,同样可以享受到户外时光的益处。。

压力大小与闲暇时间息息相关。劳里·桑托斯是耶鲁大学(Yale University)心理学教授,同时也是《幸福实验室》(The Happiness Lab )播客节目主持人,致力于研究幸福背后的科学原理。她提到一个概念:“时间富裕”(time affluence),即拥有闲暇时间的人感觉更幸福。

与之相对的概念是“时间饥荒”(time famine),她解释说:“处在时间饥荒状态的人,就如同在忍受饥饿,而研究表明,这种感觉对幸福感的负面影响与失业相当。”

美国心理学会(American Psychological Association)2021年的一项研究指出,虽然过多的闲暇时间可能引发问题,但每天少于两小时的闲暇时间同样会降低幸福感。该研究得出结论,每天2到5小时的闲暇时间是获得最佳幸福感的理想时长。

另一个常见的压力来源是金钱。桑托斯说:“如果你经济困难,整日为吃穿住用行而奔波,那么增加收入确实会让你更幸福。”

然而,2010年的一项经常被引用的研究发现,年收入达到75,000美元后,收入的增加对幸福感的提升作用就变得很有限。

“最近的一些研究有一些细微差别,但我认为数据真正告诉我们的是,金钱对我们幸福感的影响远比我们想象的要小,” 桑托斯说。

3. 运动

专家们称,多巴胺和内啡肽能够让人感到幸福,而获得它们并不需要进行马拉松训练。

“在有关幸福感与运动的研究中,最令人信服的一项研究将每天半小时有氧运动与服用抗抑郁药物的效果进行了对比,” 桑托斯说,“这些研究基本上都表明,增加身体活动确实能够影响我们的幸福水平。”

尽管我们尚不完全清楚这背后的科学机制,但一些研究者推测,运动可以改善大脑功能,有助于治疗某些精神疾病,从而带来更多的幸福感。众多研究显示,即使是短时间的运动也能产生这种积极效果。

正如苏恩之前所强调的,户外运动好处多多。

“聆听大自然的声音、呼吸新鲜空气有助于提升幸福感,” 她说。

4. 社交

美国正在经历一场“孤独流行病”,其对健康的危害等同于吸烟。在3月份发布的一份公告中,美国卫生局局长警告称,那些感到孤独的人可能会面临严重的健康风险。

相反,拥有朋友、家人以及通过工作或志愿者服务建立牢固社会纽带对于幸福至关重要。

《世界幸福报告》将这种社会支持定义为在需要时可以依靠或求助的人。

“所有关于幸福人群的研究都显示,幸福的人更擅长社交,” 桑托斯说,“他们花更多时间与朋友和家人相处,也更频繁地与他人互动。因此,我认为拥有更多的社交联系与感到更幸福之间存在着明显的联系。而缺乏社交联系也是‘孤独流行病’日益严重的原因之一。”

苏恩的应用程序通过建议用户与同事共进午餐或给老朋友发信息来培养幸福感。

“社交联系的质量比数量更为重要,” 苏恩说,“在你的生活中,哪怕只有两三个你觉得会陪伴你、当你求助时会为你提供支持的人,都是极其重要的。”(财富中文网)

译者:梁宇

审校:夏林

The happiest country in the world is Finland, according to the 2024 World Happiness Report. But short of moving across the ocean, experts agree there are ways to improve your own happiness regardless of where you live.

“Happiness is a habit,” says Talia Soen, CEO and founder of Happy Things, a platform that helps you build those habits with daily activities.

Soen claims happiness has not always come easily for her. Her oldest brother has a much higher baseline of happiness, and as she reflected on that difference she decided to start an app as a way of improving her life based on the science behind happiness.

“A lot of people think of happiness as something unrealistic or out there and difficult to grasp,” she says. “We’re trying to break it down into something really teachable and approachable.”

Many experts agree, there are steps you can take to achieve happiness independent of life circumstances. Here’s a look at the habits they say happy people tend to engage in.

1. Cultivating a positive mindset

Soen goes by researcher Sonja Lyubomirsky’s definition of happiness, which says, “The experience of joy, contentedness, or positive well-being combined with the fact that one’s life is good, meaningful, and worthwhile.”

Soen believes there’s something to be said for finding happiness in the little moments in life.

“It’s really true and it’s about being mindful and incorporating those things actively in our daily life and not just waiting for them to happen,” she says.

One way to actively cultivate happiness is to start a gratitude journal. Experts agree that a meditation practice helps many to recognize and revel in the parts of their lives that bring joy, both great and small.

Similarly, a positive mindset has been shown to increase happiness.

“It’s an evolutionary mechanism for us to focus on the negative because it keeps us safe, but that also increases our stress cortisol, which has negative effects,” Soen says.

Meditation is one way to learn how to shift your mindset, but Soen has never had much luck on that front. Instead, she finds she’s able to reach meditative states while running or practicing yoga.

“So it’s not necessarily sitting in a dark room with candles,” she says.

2. Reducing stress

Lack of stress could be a defining factor in your level of happiness. Soen says that spending time in nature is shown to reduce stress. But even if you don’t have time or access to the great outdoors year round, you can mimic the benefits of outdoor time by listening to nature sounds, for example.

Stress is also shaped by how much time you have. Laurie Santos is a psychology professor at Yale University and host of The Happiness Lab podcast, examining the science behind happiness. She says there’s a concept known as time affluence, where people who have free time report feeling happier.

Time affluence is the opposite of time famine, she says, “where you’re literally starving for time, and research shows that if you self-report time famine, that can be as big a hit on your well-being as if you self-report being unemployed.”

A 2021 study published by the American Psychological Association showed there is such a thing as too much free time, but also showed that less than two hours of daily free time equated to lower levels of happiness. It concluded that two to five hours of daily free time was ideal for optimal happiness.

Another common source of stress is money. “If you really are struggling financially, if you can’t put food on your table or keep a roof over your head, then yes, definitely increasing the amount of money you have will make you happier,” she says.

However, an often-cited 2010 study found that happiness plateaus after you reach $75,000 a year.

“There’s some nuance from some recent studies, but I think what the data really shows us is that money is having much less of an effect on our happiness than we think,” Santos says.

3. Exercising

You don’t have to train for a marathon to get the hits of dopamine and endorphins that experts say equate to happiness.

“There’s a few studies looking at happiness and exercise, and one of the most compelling ones compares getting a half hour of cardio exercise a day with, for example, taking an antidepression prescription,” Santos says. “But a lot of these studies basically show that we really do affect our happiness levels by moving our body a little bit more.”

The science behind why this is remains unclear, but some researchers suspect that exercise improves brain function, which can assist with certain mental disorders, leading to more happiness. And many studies show that even short bursts of exercise can achieve this effect.

And as Soen mentioned earlier, getting the exercise outdoors can offer a double whammy.

“Listening to nature sounds and breathing fresh air has been found to support happiness,” she says.

4. Socializing

The United States is experiencing a loneliness epidemic, equating the feeling of being lonely to a health danger similar to smoking. A March announcement by the surgeon general warned of serious health risks for those in the community who feel isolated.

The opposite is true, then, that having friends, family, and other strong social ties through your career or volunteer work is essential for happiness.

The World Happiness Report defines this social support factor as having someone you can rely on or reach out to in times of need.

“Every available study of happy people suggests that happy people are more social,” Santos says. “They spend more time with their friends and family members, and they’re just around other people more often. And so I think there’s such a clear connection between having more social connections and feeling happier. And that’s one of the reasons the loneliness epidemic is so problematic.”

Soen’s app cultivates this type of happiness by suggesting users go to lunch with a coworker or text an old friend.

“It’s not about quantity, it’s about quality,” Soen says. “Having even two or three people in your life that you feel will be there for you, so that you can turn to, providing you that support system, is something really important.”

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