
夫妻矛盾、出轨与情感疏离是导致离婚的主要诱因。但离婚服务平台Divorce.com在网站发布前独家提供给《财富》杂志的最新研究数据揭示了另一关键因素:女性成为家庭经济支柱。
数据显示,无论家庭收入来自单薪还是双薪,在异性婚姻中,女方为主要收入来源的家庭,离婚率是男方收入更高家庭的三倍(每千对夫妻中31例对比11例)。
在单薪家庭中,女性作为唯一收入来源时的离婚率,是男性作为唯一收入来源时的两倍(每千对夫妻54例对比20例)。
研究发现,女性作为经济支柱的家庭仅占全美家庭的16%,却占了42%的离婚案例,“反映出明显的失衡”。
该研究基于美国人口普查局2012年至2023年间美国社区调查的21.2万名受访者数据,所有受访者在调查时均已提交离婚申请。样本覆盖全美50个州,受访者年龄为18至99岁,收入分布符合美国国情:75%年收入低于10万美元,11%年收入超过15万美元。
这一失衡模式已持续十余年。2013年的数据显示,在41%的离婚家庭中,女性曾是家庭的经济支柱,而当时这类家庭仅占全美家庭总数的17%。
当时,芝加哥大学(University of Chicago)经济学教授玛丽安娜·贝特朗曾就此撰写了一篇工作论文。她将离婚率差距视为残酷的社会现实。她发现女性收入超过丈夫会导致婚姻幸福感下降,甚至“注定”婚姻破裂。
研究公报指出:“研究显示,男性应比妻子收入更高的观念不仅影响结婚率,还会影响已婚女性的职场参与度和家务分配。而偏离这一规范的女性需付出社会代价。”
Divorce.com创始人兼首席执行官莉兹·法罗则认为,这种离婚差距实为女性赋权的证据。
法罗对《财富》杂志表示:“过去衡量女性成功的标准是婚姻与家庭稳定,如今职业成就与传统角色外的自我实现则变得更加重要。女性在经济上不再依赖伴侣,这意味着她们更有勇气结束不满意的婚姻关系,而不是继续维系。”
这一现象并非美国独有。2024年对法国夫妻的数据分析显示,在控制其他变量后,“女性收入占比超55%的伴侣关系显著更不稳定。她们的婚姻破裂风险比收入平等的夫妻高11%至40%,且女性的总收入占比越高,婚姻破裂的风险会随之升高。”
皮尤研究中心(Pew Research)的数据显示,截至2023年,美国家庭中,妻子收入与丈夫持平或更高的比例较五十年前增长超两倍。研究发现,当前55%的婚姻中丈夫仍是经济支柱,29%夫妻收入相当,16%妻子收入更高。
该研究的作者、皮尤研究员卡罗琳娜·阿拉冈向《财富》表示:“女性在婚姻中的经济话语权正在增强。”
但皮尤研究同时发现,除了女性作为唯一收入来源的家庭外,收入更高的女性仍比丈夫承担更多育儿与家务。
这种失衡或是离婚的诱因之一。
法罗表示:“现代女性对情感与亲密关系中个人价值实现的期待更高,这导致她们对不健康或失衡的关系容忍度降低。离婚不再像以前一样被污名化,女性尤其是经济独立的女性,更有底气结束损害情感健康的婚姻。”(财富中文网)
译者:刘进龙
审校:汪皓
夫妻矛盾、出轨与情感疏离是导致离婚的主要诱因。但离婚服务平台Divorce.com在网站发布前独家提供给《财富》杂志的最新研究数据揭示了另一关键因素:女性成为家庭经济支柱。
数据显示,无论家庭收入来自单薪还是双薪,在异性婚姻中,女方为主要收入来源的家庭,离婚率是男方收入更高家庭的三倍(每千对夫妻中31例对比11例)。
在单薪家庭中,女性作为唯一收入来源时的离婚率,是男性作为唯一收入来源时的两倍(每千对夫妻54例对比20例)。
研究发现,女性作为经济支柱的家庭仅占全美家庭的16%,却占了42%的离婚案例,“反映出明显的失衡”。
该研究基于美国人口普查局2012年至2023年间美国社区调查的21.2万名受访者数据,所有受访者在调查时均已提交离婚申请。样本覆盖全美50个州,受访者年龄为18至99岁,收入分布符合美国国情:75%年收入低于10万美元,11%年收入超过15万美元。
这一失衡模式已持续十余年。2013年的数据显示,在41%的离婚家庭中,女性曾是家庭的经济支柱,而当时这类家庭仅占全美家庭总数的17%。
当时,芝加哥大学(University of Chicago)经济学教授玛丽安娜·贝特朗曾就此撰写了一篇工作论文。她将离婚率差距视为残酷的社会现实。她发现女性收入超过丈夫会导致婚姻幸福感下降,甚至“注定”婚姻破裂。
研究公报指出:“研究显示,男性应比妻子收入更高的观念不仅影响结婚率,还会影响已婚女性的职场参与度和家务分配。而偏离这一规范的女性需付出社会代价。”
Divorce.com创始人兼首席执行官莉兹·法罗则认为,这种离婚差距实为女性赋权的证据。
法罗对《财富》杂志表示:“过去衡量女性成功的标准是婚姻与家庭稳定,如今职业成就与传统角色外的自我实现则变得更加重要。女性在经济上不再依赖伴侣,这意味着她们更有勇气结束不满意的婚姻关系,而不是继续维系。”
这一现象并非美国独有。2024年对法国夫妻的数据分析显示,在控制其他变量后,“女性收入占比超55%的伴侣关系显著更不稳定。她们的婚姻破裂风险比收入平等的夫妻高11%至40%,且女性的总收入占比越高,婚姻破裂的风险会随之升高。”
皮尤研究中心(Pew Research)的数据显示,截至2023年,美国家庭中,妻子收入与丈夫持平或更高的比例较五十年前增长超两倍。研究发现,当前55%的婚姻中丈夫仍是经济支柱,29%夫妻收入相当,16%妻子收入更高。
该研究的作者、皮尤研究员卡罗琳娜·阿拉冈向《财富》表示:“女性在婚姻中的经济话语权正在增强。”
但皮尤研究同时发现,除了女性作为唯一收入来源的家庭外,收入更高的女性仍比丈夫承担更多育儿与家务。
这种失衡或是离婚的诱因之一。
法罗表示:“现代女性对情感与亲密关系中个人价值实现的期待更高,这导致她们对不健康或失衡的关系容忍度降低。离婚不再像以前一样被污名化,女性尤其是经济独立的女性,更有底气结束损害情感健康的婚姻。”(财富中文网)
译者:刘进龙
审校:汪皓
Conflict, infidelity, and lack of intimacy are some of the top causes of divorce. But new data compiled by Divorce.com, shared with Fortune ahead of its publication on the website, shows another factor: a woman being the main breadwinner.
Regardless of whether the household has one or two incomes, a female main earner in a heterosexual marriage is associated with a divorce rate that is three times higher (31 vs. 11 per 1,000) than marriages with a man who earns more.
Further, in single-income homes with female breadwinners, the divorce rate is twice as high (54 vs. 20 per 1,000).
Female breadwinners, the findings continue, represent just 16% of all households—but account for 42% of divorces, “highlighting a significant imbalance.”
The data is based on the 212,000 respondents of the Census’s American Community Survey from between 2012 and 2023, all of whom had filed for divorce at the time of the survey. It was collected from all 50 states, included respondents from 18 to 99, and reflected U.S. income distribution, with 75% reporting income below $100,000 ad 11% reporting incomes above $150,000.
The pattern appears to have held for over a decade, as data from 2013 shows female earners accounting for 41% of divorcing households while only making up 17% of all U.S. households.
That’s when University of Chicago professor of economics Marianne Bertrand co-wrote a working paper exploring the topic. She saw the divorce-rate gap as a grim societal reality, as a woman outearning her husband was found to cause unhappiness in a relationship, she found, and even “doom” the marriage.
“The notion that a man should earn more than his wife not only impacts marriage rates, the researchers show, but also influences how much a married woman works outside the home and how household chores are divided,” a press release on the research noted. “Moreover, women who deviate from that norm pay a social price.”
Divorce.com CEO and founder Liz Pharo, though, believes that such a divorce gap could be evidence of empowerment.
“In previous generations, success for women was usually measured by marriage and family stability, but today, career achievements and personal fulfillment outside of traditional roles are more central,” Pharo tells Fortune. “Women are no longer financially dependent on their partners, which means they’re more willing to leave unsatisfied marriages instead of staying out of necessity.”
The finding is not even uniquely American, as a 2024 data analysis of couples in France found that, all other things being equal, “couples in which the woman’s share of the couple’s total income is higher than 55% are significantly more unstable than other couples. They are from 11 to 40% more at risk of union dissolution than equal-income couples, and the risk of union dissolution increases with the woman’s share of couple’s total income.”
In the U.S., the share of married women who were earning at least as much as their husbands had more than tripled in the past five decades as of 2023, Pew Research found. Husbands, it discovered, were the breadwinners in 55% of marriages, while 29% of couples were earning about the same and 16% earned more than their spouse.
“Women are gaining economic influence within their marriages,” Carolina Aragão, a Pew research associate and author on that research, told Fortune at the time.
But despite sometimes earning more than their husbands, Pew found, married women spent more of their downtime on childcare and household chores than the men, with one exception: when the woman was the sole breadwinner.
That imbalance could also play a role.
“Modern women have higher expectations for emotional and personal fulfillment in relationships, leading to a lower tolerance for unhealthy or imbalanced partnerships,” says Pharo. “Divorce isn’t as stigmatized as it once was. Women, especially those who are financially independent, feel more empowered to walk away from marriages that don’t serve their emotional wellbeing.”